《治愈冥王星问题》不定期贴出语句摘录与翻译

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<Healing Pluto Problems> Donna Cunningham

"If they like you, you're it. No easing in and exploring each other, then making up your mind. Possibly, with their keen insight into people, that's all the time it takes to make a valid psychological assessment, but nonetheless it can scare off folks who need longer to make a commitment."

"Fearing abandonment, they attempt to bind the lover with mechanisms described earlier. Out of desperate fear, they often tragically create the abandonment they work so hard to aboid, for they wind up being suffocating."

如果冥王星人喜欢你，那就是你了。没有缓冲，或者慢慢相处的空隙，他们很快就会把爱燃烧地极其热烈。也许，凭着冥王星人对人敏锐的洞察力，只需要这么短时间就可以做出有效的心理意义上的论断。但是，这样仍然会吓跑那些需要更长相处时间来决定是否深爱的人。

害怕被遗弃，他们会试图制造一些过早的机制来绑住爱人。只为走出那令人绝望的恐惧，讽刺的是——他们往往会悲剧性地亲手创造自己所努力避免的被遗弃局面，终究被困住、窒息。